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Thursday, October 29, 2009


How can you be friends with someone when everytime you see them you want them even more?! There are no such things as strangers, only friends we haven't met yet. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can by trying to get other people interested in you. Friendship often ends in love; but love in friendship, never. However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship. Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship. Love demands infinitely less than friendship. Friendship is the perfection of love, and superior to love; it is love ... Love is blind; friendship closes its eyes. A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway. A friend loves at all times. Friendship is Love without his wings! Friends show their love in times of trouble... Life is to be fortified by many friendships. To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence. A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have. There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship -you always feel loved and cared about. ref: date: 29 October 2009, 17:26, MY

Break Up Quotes

A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it. I can't escape the thought of you. Even in my dreams you are there. It's not fair how your gone, and how you're moving on so fast, while I am still living in the past. Breaking up is not a stupid thing; instead it makes you a better person and realize your mistakes. Letting go of someone dear to you is hard, but holding on to someone who doesn't even feel the same is much harder. Giving up doesn't mean you are weak! It only means that you are strong enough to let go! Breaking up is just like having the worst nightmare after having the best dream. Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who wouldn't give up on them. If your love does not work with that person, it just means that someone else loves you more. If you can't save the relationship, at least save your pride. When you love him - truly love him, how are you supposed to get over him? I've tried everything possible ... but I just can't. Isn't that what true love is? I don't know what to do now that we're apart; I don't know how to live without the other half of my heart. My biggerst fear is that one day we will pass each other on the streets and have an artifical conversation. There is nothing sadder in this life than to watch someone you love walk away after they have left you. To watch the distance between your two bodies expand until there is nothing left but empty space... and silence. My heart only fought for what it wanted. Now my heart is having to fight to let him go." Watching you walk out of my life hasn't made me bitter or cynical about love, but rather, it has shown me that if I wanted so badly to be with the wrong person, how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along. Now that I have loved so purely and deeply, I have realized how lonely I really am. Some people think that it's holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it's letting go. You have to forgive to forget, and forget, to feel again. ref: date: 29 October 2009, 16:28, MY

LoV3 Quote_1

You know it's love when forever is not long enough. It's true we don't know what we've got until its gone, but we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Love is the shortest distance between hearts. Life and love are like hide and seek. People spend their whole lives looking for love, but when they finally forget to look for it, they find it. See there's this place in me where your fingerprints still rest, your kisses still linger, and your whispers softly echo. It's the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me. The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before. If you love someone, do not put their name in a heart because hearts can be broken, instead put their name in a circle, because circles go on forever. Love is just a word until someone you meet gives it a proper meaning. ref: date: 29 October 2009, 15:44, MY

Saturday, October 24, 2009

L.O.V.E (pt.2)

Tips • It does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you. However, to truly love someone, you must let them be free. It is selfish to blame them for your feelings. • There are many types of love, for example: a mother-son love is different from a best friend's love, which is different from a romantic love. Don't be ashamed to tell anyone that you love your friends as much as you love anyone else in your life. • You have to find someone that will suit you, someone you feel comfortable with - not just someone to make love to. • Sometimes love is all we need. As a word, love can be found worldwide and is often used to describe compassion and/or emotional attachment. Accepting those you love for who they are is part of love. You also need to learn to accept yourself before you can accept another. If you cannot love yourself, how are you to love another? • Love genuinely. Do not compare your feelings now to what your feelings were when you were with another mate. At times, we can experience rejection. • Realize that love is a feeling that wikiHow can describe and attempt to assist, but ultimately, you are the one who must take action in order to discover love. • Do things that make the other person feel good and happy, but do not smother them with gifts and attention. • Consider some tips about what people in love do. o People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavour to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it. o Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their potential and find their fulfillment in life. o Love does not brag. People who are truly in love refrain from rehearsing their good traits just to show off. Bragging in a relationship often is really defensiveness. o People who are truly in love do not insist that their way is best and demand that their mates give in to them. o People who are truly in love are considerate of each other's feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly, sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They ridicule each other, belittle each other and trade jibes with a fury. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores. o People who are truly in love look out for their mate's best interests as much as their own. Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well. o People who are truly in love control their anger when the other displeases them. We are all human, and all humans feel anger periodically, but we only express our anger in destructive ways when we are counting on someone else to meet our needs. o People who truly love each other do not take pleasure in their mate's disappointments or failures. o People who truly love each other treat their mates with absolute trust. Some husbands and wives torment themselves with groundless suspicions. If you look for trouble you will find it every time. o People who truly love look forward to their relationship growing more meaningful and precious. They have hope. Which is an attitude that happily anticipates the good. It isn't being blind and denying that there are problems, but it does look beyond the problems. People who truly love each other do not allow their problems to rob them of their happiness. • Remember there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody whom you love, that you love him/her, then you have already succeeded in love. ref: date: 22 October 2009, 17:05, MY

Friday, October 23, 2009

L.O.V.E (pt.1)

Dear ALL, Here is some tips that I get while browsing the internet during working hour :P Kind of headache looking at numbers from 8am-6pm. So, let’s take a break… Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving. Steps 1. Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person. 2. Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well. 3. Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally. 4. Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way. 5. Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them. 6. Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love. ref: date:22 October 2009, 17:05, MY